Your thoughts.....
last two days have been ok...i dont mind been back at school now - its not been to bad, lessons are going quickly now as the exams keep getting closer....but today it hit me just how badly some people are effected by bullying and bitching, let me explain....
it got to lunch time and i went to form to put my things in, there was a boy who is in year8 sitting in my seat crying, i know this boy, not well but know his name so i asked him if he was ok, i then spent the next 15mins listening to him and how he is getting bullied...so i spoke to him about it and a couple of teachers were there because of the incident which had taken place, the boys who had been picking on him were trying to cover themselves but their story changed 5times....so in the end they were told to wait outside....i had a long chat with this boy and then i then left this boy who was crying so the teachers could talk to him a bit more and i went to get dinner.
went back to form shortly after to find my friend crying outside form on her own.....i hang around with 4 other girls, including this girl who was outside form....3 of these girls have fallen out with this one girl....im the only one whos friends with them both....they have fallen out because supposidly the girl was bitching about them to other people, however as far as im aware they havent asked her, they've just taken other peoples word....its quite hard for me and awkward when they are near each other because they dont get on. however one of them was with me when we saw her.....i started chatting to her and spent the next 25mins with her crying and telling me how she feels about everything...i was honest with her....i told her how i find it hard when her and the girl who was with me bitch about people they dont know and judge them because of what they look like or what they are wearing...she turned around to me and said she realised just how much bitching hurts people and she feels bad when shes judged people. the girl who was with me just stood there listening. i tired to talk to the girl crying about things....but i didnt no what to say to some of the things she was saying....but ive said to her and the other 3girls indivually they need to sit down 1-1 and talk and sort things out....so hopefully that will happen.
so lunch was quite eventful....one of the teachers came and said thank you to me for chatting to this boy and apparently i helped him.
i just want to know...if you were in my shoes....and your friends had fallen out like mine have, what would you do?? would you do what ive done?? or would you do something different?? ive stayed hanging around with the other 3girls...but im only with them twice a week at lunch because i have prefect duty, prayer meeting and alpha course the other three lunch times, but im with them every break time....maybe i should stay with the other girl? i dont know.....
id really apprecaite if you comment about it. thanks!
it got to lunch time and i went to form to put my things in, there was a boy who is in year8 sitting in my seat crying, i know this boy, not well but know his name so i asked him if he was ok, i then spent the next 15mins listening to him and how he is getting bullied...so i spoke to him about it and a couple of teachers were there because of the incident which had taken place, the boys who had been picking on him were trying to cover themselves but their story changed 5times....so in the end they were told to wait outside....i had a long chat with this boy and then i then left this boy who was crying so the teachers could talk to him a bit more and i went to get dinner.
went back to form shortly after to find my friend crying outside form on her own.....i hang around with 4 other girls, including this girl who was outside form....3 of these girls have fallen out with this one girl....im the only one whos friends with them both....they have fallen out because supposidly the girl was bitching about them to other people, however as far as im aware they havent asked her, they've just taken other peoples word....its quite hard for me and awkward when they are near each other because they dont get on. however one of them was with me when we saw her.....i started chatting to her and spent the next 25mins with her crying and telling me how she feels about everything...i was honest with her....i told her how i find it hard when her and the girl who was with me bitch about people they dont know and judge them because of what they look like or what they are wearing...she turned around to me and said she realised just how much bitching hurts people and she feels bad when shes judged people. the girl who was with me just stood there listening. i tired to talk to the girl crying about things....but i didnt no what to say to some of the things she was saying....but ive said to her and the other 3girls indivually they need to sit down 1-1 and talk and sort things out....so hopefully that will happen.
so lunch was quite eventful....one of the teachers came and said thank you to me for chatting to this boy and apparently i helped him.
i just want to know...if you were in my shoes....and your friends had fallen out like mine have, what would you do?? would you do what ive done?? or would you do something different?? ive stayed hanging around with the other 3girls...but im only with them twice a week at lunch because i have prefect duty, prayer meeting and alpha course the other three lunch times, but im with them every break time....maybe i should stay with the other girl? i dont know.....
id really apprecaite if you comment about it. thanks!
posted by gill @ 4:41 PM
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